Salam wa aleikum




....thanks for coming to read my blog.


I hope that you will enjoy keeping in touch with our lives, and that one day, you might even make the trek out to come and visit with us (**NB - VISA's upon arrival for Canadians once again!!).

Grab yourself a nice cup of tea (Make mine JTG's Blue Mountain, mixed with a hint of French Earl...but get something that suits your fancy), and let's catch up...

Tuesday, February 12, 2013

Chinese New Year & Api-CAE Gourmet


We finally made it to see the Lion Dance at the Shangri-La Hotel.  The children all really enjoyed it, and it was great to see them all at an age where the drumming didn't make anyone cry.

The staff were happy to see our little ones, and they even got some great pictures of all of us on their Facebook page.  Here were some pictures from Malou's phone:

One pose for mommy


One pose for daddy
Snuggling with Malou

Dumplings made with Aunty Yang


Pickle was much too busy dancing and eating dates.  The hotel managed to get some nice pics of him though.

Today, Little A's class had a field-trip to APi-CAE Gourmet, where they engaged in age-inappropriate activities (word searches for children who cannot spell) and had a great time making and eating pizza.  I am glad that I was able to join them, and the free valet made it easy to drive in and park (otherwise that area can be a mess).  I was lucky to enjoy a free latte and the most flaky and buttery croissant I have ever had in my life--it was perfect!!  I even brought home some profiteroles for Peter this evening.

Planning stage:  adding basil leave and tomato sauce

Top chef

Hat won't stay on during the kitchen tour



Heart-shaped pizza

Even in my quasi-retired state, activities like this reinforce for me my beliefs and classroom practices, with respect to teaching.  I actually like to be involved with the children, and I always ensured that parents who volunteered did the same.  I always made sure to guide parent involvement, especially as some parents don't know HOW to help.  

The finished product

Saturday, February 9, 2013

Enter the snake

Well, the year of the snake is upon us.  Gung Hay Fat Choy!

Pig
Other than having our decorations up, nothing has transpired at our place to celebrate the new year.  We tried to attend the Lion Dance today, only to learn that the Abu Dhabi Week magazine had misprinted the date last week (and I haven't had time to read the correction in this week's edition).  Thankfully, I hadn't gotten out of my truck and left it with valet...so basically, we just took a drive to the Shang and back this morning.
Ox

I did, however, take some time to dress up the kids.
Rabbit

On Friday, when 'the littles' were asleep, A and I painted a pizza box (take-away from our dinner the night before at Frankie's--with Mirah and Harris).  She asked me if I would paint with her "like we used to do when I was little".  BIG SIGH--I did used to have a lot more time just to sit around an paint with her.  We also used the time to make lemon-mint popsicles (of which she could only stomache half today).

destined for the walls of CPK
 

Today, in lieu of the outing to see the lion dance, we went back to what is fast becoming our favourite park in KCA.  I was thrilled to see Pickle attempt to walk across the swing bridge (successfully).  Magoo even managed it, with a little help.  A told me that she was a professional, and indeed, she was quite confident and practically leaping from step to step.  She was even sweet enough to stay close behind Pickle, using her body as a human safety-net for him, in the case he lost his footing (something I realized after repeatedly asking her to give him space).

Living Doll Collection


Peter will be back tonight.  Though I was a bit apprehensive about all three kids with no help (on Friday especially), I must admit that the children were amazing.  I am a lucky mom!






Wednesday, February 6, 2013

Dear Universe...

Are you effing (with a capital F) with me?

I took Pickle in for his blood test on November 29.  I waited--scared, anxious--patiently, for two months.  I called the hospital on Monday, to discover the lab results were back, and surprise!  nobody had bothered to call me.  Though I was informed that either the doctor (who only is available Mondays and Thursdays) or the nurse could give me the results, when I finally got through to the nurse (after one disconnection and another re-route through the switchboard), she told me only the doctor could tell me the test results.  She said she would take a message and that he would call me back later that day, or on Thursday.  So, I waited again...all the time TRYING to stay positive and channel my energy, and the energy around me to get the results I wanted.
This morning, I called again, and the doctor picked up on the first ring (shocking!).  He took my details and promised to call me back.  Which he did.  Only, the news he gave me was that they had run the WRONG test on my little Pickle.  Instead of running the follow-up test, as we had discussed, they in fact REPEATED the old test.

I guess the good news is that the test results were consistent with the first test.  Still negative.

However, I am still left feeling a bit like my head might explode...the big pressure system has not actually been unleashed...it has nowhere to go!

So--I gotta ask...WTF??

Is this a case of "YOU CAN'T HANDLE THE TRUTH!", and so you are trying to let me live in my la-la-land where my son just has a few delays and is going to grow out of them?

Or are you just giving me more time to channel my energy better to create the result I want?  Perhaps my efforts of the last two months weren't enough...

Either way--message received.  I will work harder and focus more on receiving another NEGATIVE report from the hospital (on the new test that Pickle will be giving blood for in the upcoming week).  I will NOT allow worry to creep into my heart or mind.  I will be sure that all of these experiences were just that...experiences to grow from.

I will worry when I have something to worry about.

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Yesterday little A was so very proud of the cookie that she iced in class.  It was a digestive biscuit, and she had used yellow icing and alphabet sprinkles.  She was soooo proud that she kept jamming it into my already full hands, while I was talking to the new dad in the class (doing my classroom mom duties).  I asked her politely to stop and wait.  I showed her my full hands.  She just kept pushing it at me and WHOOPS!  It flew off the plate and crumpled into bits on the floor.


She was sad.  So was I.  She didn't cry at all though--THAT'S my girl.

When we got home, I whipped out the icing from the fridge (the one that I know little kindergarten students haven't sneezed, coughed or licked), added a drop of red, and she was such a happy big sister, mixing it up and icing cookies for her siblings.

Digestive biscuits have never tasted
quite so good before!


The weekend is coming.  Peter is flying off to KL with Uncle Ajay, and the kids and I will celebrate Chinese New Year without him (honestly--he's not THAT big a contributor to the celebration anyways!).  On Saturday we will go to the Shangri-La and see the Lion Dance (which has become a tradition for us).  My friend Yang will come and make dumplings on Sunday--and it will be lovely.

I love the weekends.  This will be an especially easy and lazy one.



Tuesday, February 5, 2013

New Park in KCA


Check out this new kid's park in KCA--it is FABULOUS!  Sun-shades?  check.  Recycled tire ground-cover?  check.  Equipment that is not covered with peeling paint that could give my child tetanus?  check.  I am so impressed.  Magoo and went and explored the park this morning.  

Sand-box and covered picnic area

Climbing wall in the back

Walk the plank

She loves to bounce...

...she does NOT love to swing
I feel like I am dying inside, waiting for the dr to call me back.  I wish he had called yesterday.  I am trying to channel all my power and the energy around me to make the results what I want them to be.  I will keep trying, and look forward to hearing that my efforts worked when I get that call...whenever that might be...

Family Photo Shoot...the girls


This is really an authentic Abu Dhabi style family photo shoot.  We are all (even my already beautiful little girls) photoshopped.  My colouring is CRAZY in this picture (and why couldn't they shave off a portion of me, if they were doing that sort of thing anyway?).


THIS is little A's favourite picture.  Suffice it to say that the swing was NOT moving and there were no magical stars or butterflies there on the day of the shoot.  





Monday, February 4, 2013

Dog Days of Abu Dhabi




We have just been busy hanging around and doing the little things that make up one's life.  Pickle is adjusting to nursery (and today was another day without tears...I think it is Day 4 of NO TEARS now).  He is definitely trying to articulate more, and has come home with the expressions of "Oh my goodness!" and "Oh dear!", which are apparently used by his teacher Ms. Lindsey.


Earlier in January, we went to see the return of the GIANTS OF GOLF tournament in Abu Dhabi.  Tiger Woods (having already been pre-paid for his visit here, regardless of his performance) decided to pack things in early and did not play on the weekend.  I envision Tiger lying on a beach in Dubai thinking "THIS is the life!".

  

It does feel a bit strange to have only THESE TWO around the house all morning.  Initially, I wasn't really all too sure what to do.


One day I was THAT lady--the one who WALKS with her child from Al Raha Gardens over to the Spinneys at Al Bandar.  I thought something was a bit unusual when Magoo's head kept bobbing around, and there was no noise...but the grip she had on the milk carton confused me.  I thought for SURE if she was sleeping, she would have relaxed her fingers and dropped it...but NOPE!  As I reached home, I discovered that on the 17 minute walk home, she had fallen asleep...and she didn't even spill a drop of that milk--what a star!


This is hands down Magoo's favourite jacket.  Thankfully, the weather has been unusually cool (and last week it was VERY foggy), and she has had a chance to cozy up in it.  Our friends Norman and Lisa sent this jacket to us when Little A was born, and I loved it so much--such good quality and so cute--I am pleased to have had another little girl to wear it (which is not to say that Pickle didn't....).  

I am Canadian (and Chinese...and Indian....)

During a much needed clean-up of my closet, I managed to find the salwar pajamas that go with this kameez, for little A.  She was so excited, that she wore the outfit two days in a row (here she has jazzed it up with a bhindi, en route to the Shangri-La for brekkie).  Magoo has decided to keep it simple, and honour her Edmontonian roots, with this pink jersey (go Oilers!).

Peter and I are managing to get out a bit more.  On Thursday night we went out for dinner at Nolu's with our new friends Naureen and Naveed (Canadians who may soon be heading back to Toronto).  Then on Saturday we went to De Thali, where we both remarked on a decline in the food (sigh!).  Yesterday morning Little A had a play-date with her friends (which started at Dalma mall and ended up at Al Bandar for ice cream).  This morning I found myself driving out to Saadiyat Island, to visit my friend Amar in her St. Regis apartment.  I can't wait for warmer weather, to go back and try the private beach!

I am putting off a call to the SKMC--I have to so that I am just not prepared to received any bad news at present.  I like things as they are, where Pickle is developing and growing, slowly but surely.  He has become a pro at sleeping in his big-boy-bed and the only problem now is that he literally picks apart the foam mattress in his room (the one I use to lie down beside him while he falls asleep) upon waking.

First day of school




Wednesday, January 23, 2013

Cover-boy


Here is the face of Redwood Nursery, Abu Dhabi (well--at least it is the picture on the Facebook album cover for Open Day Visitors).

Pickle and Magoo were the first adventurers to scale this climbing wall.

He seems to be settling well, though drop-offs are still heart-wrenching and filled with sadness.  I am told (by teachers and other parents) that he settles down really quick, is engaged, and has shown tremendous growth in the past three weeks.

His vocabulary and 'talking' have definitely increased, so, it is obviously helping him in his language development.

We (A, myself and Pickle) are all unwell.  A has pink-eye (and is now being paid 1 aed per eye to cooperate with drops), and a cough and cold.  Pickle has the cough and cold (and possibly the conjunctivitis, but I am still watching him).  I have the cough and sore-throat--and am nursing myself with hot water and honey.

Was treated to an unexpected visit with Christine today--very nice to catch up with her (though I was very disheveled looking, which I noticed when she was leaving--sorry C!).

Long weekend coming up (though A has been home since yesterday courtesy pink eye).  I love long weekends and down-time with the kids.  Think we might try a Dubai trip with Christine on Friday (we'll see how energetic I am feeling).